Partner Support for Labor and Birth: |
Another invaluable reference is Henci Goer’s, "A Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth." An educated birthing couple is an empowered one. Learning a lot IN ADVANCE of your estimated due date will help you make informed choices about how, where and with whom you give birth and help you make more informed decisions during your labor itself.
Additionally, the use of a professional labor support person (doula) is very helpful during this vulnerable and important time in your lives. A doula is trained and experienced in the emotional, psychological and physiological process of birth. She is with you and your partner throughout your birth experience. Although you may think a doula is hired just to support the laboring woman, many partners feel great relief with the presence of a birth doula. Your partner no longer needs to become an expert in childbirth and is freed up to be emotionally present with you and with his or her own experience of becoming a parent.
The doula will also support your partner during labor and assist him/her to be involved with the birth. A doula recognizes the importance of your baby's birth day as an opportunity to strengthen the foundation of your relationship, and this will carry you forward together as parents. See www.DONA.org for a list of questions to ask when interviewing a doula and referrals. See www.fullcirclebirth.com for more information on birth and postpartum doulas and childbirth preparation classes in the Los Angeles area.
Renee Christine Mandala, M.A. CD (DONA) is a Certified Birth and Postpartum doula. She holds a Master's Degree in Spiritual Psychology with an emphasis in Consciousness, Health & Healing. Renee provides heart-centered care through the transformational journey of birth and early parenthood. She is currently undergoing cerification with the UCLA Lactation Educator Program.